This might be do-able with one caveat . . .
The way to approach this challenge is to access a 2006 or later XLR-V Service Manual and research how the standard (manual) cruise control interface operates and differs compared to the DSCC in your car, with particular attention to the electrical schematic connections and pinout diagrams from the modules involved; especially the ECM. Then compare parts lists, to determine which part numbers are different and order the parts for installation.
Here's the caveat: The biggest issue I foresee is if the ECM programming for the cruise control is the main module affected, (and it probably is) it's designed to control a different engine (supercharged N*). You might need to look at other N* ECMs and have one reprogrammed by a tuner to match your original ECM if the V-series ECM can't be changed.
In your car, the DSCC module is self-contained and communicates directly with the ECM. The operator-controlled switches (Gap Switch Adjustment & Steering column Turn Signal/Multi-function switch) communicate with the BCM which also shares data with the ECM.
Since service manuals are pricey, you can spend $10 for a one-day pass and download the info here:
RepairProcedures.com - Providing electronic service information for 1995 to current GM vehicles
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